I had never heard of lichen planus until I was told I had it about three years ago. It is when the immune system attacks mucus cells on different parts of the body, and in my case, the vulva. It creates sores on the labia which feel dry and itchy and I am in nearly constant pain because of this. I've stopped any hair removal and I barely wear underwear anymore as any irritation in that area is so painful, even just sitting down sometimes. It seems to be one of those 'mystery' things that doesn't have a clear explanation or cure. The cause is also unknown, although there are many speculations.

This has hugely affected my sex life; from being a naturally very sexually active person in the past, now I feel in some ways dirty or 'tainted'. I also feel fearful and disconnected from my vagina, like my body has rejected it, which makes me sad. I'm treating it homeopathically at the moment, and trying to strengthen my immune system with eating well and taking supplements, but I would love to know if other people have or have had the same issue and have any good suggestions.

I'm trying to come to terms with this and find a way forward / trying to imagine how I can enjoy having sex again. I'm so grateful for this wonderful gallery, this makes me love vulvas even more, as we're all so beautifully unique! I feel it's important to share and help each other, and this space allows that.

R – 26 years old